When doctors told me I’d have to endure 4.5 months of chemotherapy with dozens of potential side effects, it felt impossible.

But today I’m celebrating 2 years since finishing chemo—proud, grateful, and stronger than I ever imagined.

Obstacles are part of every journey. The biggest ones can appear suddenly, feel overwhelming, and test our strength, creativity, and resilience.

When we see them as enormous, immovable mountains, fear and negativity can take over. 

As a breast cancer survivor, my journey didn’t end when treatment did. Survivorship means continued strength, and continued vigilance.

One reality many survivors face is an increased risk of second primary cancers, including melanoma.

I had big plans for turning 40 including an island vacation with friends, and a big milestone birthday party.

But three and a half months before my birthday, I was diagnosed with breast cancer and all plans were cancelled.

Sunday is National Children’s Day. Like many parents, we imagined days with our children would be filled with play and laughter, not conversations about cancer.

Battling breast cancer was the most physically and emotionally difficult thing I’ve ever endured.

However, I didn’t expect to experience and struggle with GRIEF as both a cancer patient and survivor.