My Reconstruction Choice and The Confidence It Gave Me

Today is Breast Reconstruction Awareness (BRA) Day

This global movement, now observed in 30+ countries, is dedicated to making sure every breast cancer warrior, previvor, and survivor knows their reconstruction options.

There are many paths after a mastectomy or lumpectomy, from immediate to delayed, each with its own pros and cons:

1️⃣ Implant Reconstruction – done immediately or in two stages with a tissue expander
2️⃣ Autologous (Flap) Reconstruction – uses your own tissue for a natural feel
3️⃣ Oncoplastic Reconstruction – reshapes the breast after a lumpectomy
4️⃣ Nipple & Areola Reconstruction or 3D Tattooing – restores natural appearance
5️⃣ Going Flat (Aesthetic Flat Closure) – a beautiful choice for those who prefer not to reconstruct

The best option depends on your diagnosis, other treatments, body, and personal comfort.

At 40 years old, I chose a double mastectomy with implant reconstruction; it was the choice that helped me feel most confident and feminine, and helped me feel whole again after treatment. 

When it comes to breast reconstruction, what matters most is being informed, and choosing what feels right for you. 💕

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